Be A Good Kisser...

In this How To Be a Good Kisser post I’m going to explore the subject of how to be a good kisser by dealing with all of the things that you should not do. Whether you’re engaged in a loving emotional kiss or a very passionate sexual kiss the dos and don’ts are pretty much the same. The real difference is in the intensity of the kiss itself.

I think that one of best ways to learn how to be a good kisser is to study the things that you don’t like in other people’s kissing style. If you don’t have much kissing experience then you can simply take note of things that other people are turned off by. I’ll start with some of the kissing techniques that I myself hate and then add in those bad kissing habits that others have complained about.

Here are some things you do not want to do when you want to know how to kiss someone:
 
•Open your mouth too wide. In a kiss your lips should always be meeting the other persons, never surrounding them. I’m talking here about a full on open mouth kiss not the playful lip biting we all enjoy. I had a girlfriend once who just insisted on surrounding my lips with hers and it just grossed me out. Don’t do it!


•Pressing too hard. Once you’re in a kiss there is no need to try and continue moving towards the person you’re kissing, you’re not going to get any closer. Really.

•Too much tongue movement. This is big complaint about bad kissers. A french kiss is supposed to be a sensual express of love, not someone trying to beat your tongue into submission.

•Leaving your eyes open. Oh that’s just creepy. If you want to learn how to kiss, start with this tip: once you’re in range, close your eyes.

•Sucking too hard. Most of us enjoy a little sucking action during an expressive kiss but when my tongue feels like it’s in a vacuum chamber and blood vessels are about to burst you’ve gone too far.

•Lack of head movement. A good kiss should involve a little head movement as a kind of caress with your lips. When your partner’s moving their head and you’re not, you will make them feel uncomfortable and that you’re not into kissing them.

•This one is for guys only; women just ignore this, really, we don’t care. Guys, women don’t like when a kiss is an obvious attempt at getting sex. I know you’ve all seen the movie scene where the couple is tearing their clothes off 2 seconds into the kiss, but that rarely happens. If you try and recreate that scene you are most likely not only done for the night but forever with this woman. Here’s the approach you want to take: The “kiss” is it. It’s what you want and it’s all you want. It is the total expression of your feelings for this woman. Kiss her that way goodnight and then leave and she will not stop thinking about you for days.
Ok that’s my top list for things you do not want to do if you want to know how to be a good kisser. There is much more you need to learn about becoming a better kisser and I can’t possibly fit it all on this small website. If you really want to take your kissing to the next level you just take my number down there . I can’t promise it will make you a world class kisser but hey, you never know.
 
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